Anonymous said: do you let people hug you
Such behavior is not encouraged. I was exposed to the guru Leo Buscaglia’s culture of hugs in the 1980’s and have been hugged enough for one lifetime. That said, a decent handjob is never inappropriate.
Anonymous said: What do you like to do when you feel lonely?
I pack a box and mail something marvelous to a stranger. It works. I feel like the anti-Unibomber.
Oberyn Martell meme: (3/3) three outfits → miscellaneous
”(…) and slender Prince Oberyn Martell in flowing robes of striped orange, yellow, and scarlet.”
Nicki Minaj shining a light on the differences on acceptable sexuality from white women and black women.
While it has a good deal to do with color, it also has to do with the fact of how her sexuality is used.
The women above her could arguably be said to be catering to the sexual needs/wants/fantasies of men (Sports Illustrated is ESPECIALLY known for catering to a male gaze.) While Nicki Minaj has continuously used her sexuality to empower herself. Her sexuality isn’t for men, it’s for her own self. And THAT is a huge problem. Sexuality that isn’t designed for male consumption is deemed unacceptable and threatening. She is powerful, demanding, uncompromising, and men are weak, so that scares them.
And it’s also because she’s of Indian/Black background, no doubt about it. It’s not just racist, it’s also sexist.